FAQs

RSVP

  • Online by April 30th, 2025

    We are requesting all RSVPs to be done online and not by mail. Please click RSVP on the top of the page, the homepage, or this RSVP link.

  • Please RSVP here by April 30th, 2025.

  • We appreciate all of our friends and family who wish to be present on our wedding day. Please understand that we have a limited capacity and are only able to accommodate the invited guests listed on the invites.

  • Unfortunately, due to limited capacity we have only extended invites to children of family members.

  • We understand things change, please email us right away.

    Lena.TL.1015@gmail.com or ErickWilson600@gmail.com

    so we can make these changes.

Day of the Wedding

  • Arrive by 4:30 pm.

    The ceremony will begin promptly at 5:00 pm.

    Please see our event details page for a full timeline.

  • TBD


    Please do not message the bride or the groom day of the wedding.

  • Short answer: Not during the ceremony, Yes anytime else!

    We have hired a wonderful team of photographers and videographers for our wedding day. We ask that all guests keep their phones tucked away during the ceremony as professional photos will be shared with all guests.

  • Yes! We cannot wait to see what our guests have captured - please tag us so we can be notified!

  • Please refer to the Event Details page for more information.

Travel and Accommodations

  • 101 Mission Ave, Oceanside, CA 92054

    Please refer to the travel details page for more information.

  • We recommend driving, ubering, or taxiing to the venue.

    Please refer to the page travel page for more information.

  • Yes, The Seabird offers two parking options:

    Overnight Parking
    $47.00 per night (in and out privileges apply)

    Event Parking
    0-12 hours - $15.00 per car

    Please refer to the location details page for more information.

  • The Seabird is a lovely hotel, and there are several nearby alternatives in Oceanside and nearby areas.

    Please refer to the travel details page for more information.

Attire

  • Please reference this attire inspiration board.

    For Men: Suits, slacks, bowtie and tie optional, dress shoes, loafers.

    For Women: mid to floor length dresses, a fancy cocktail dress, or a dressy pantsuit.

  • Our wedding colors are Purples and Blues.

    While there is no requirement to match this theme, but we do ask guests to avoid wearing white dresses and bright red.

  • The weather is expected to be beautifully sunny!

    Please check the weather as we get closer to the wedding date.

  • Our wedding will have both indoor and outdoor components.

    For more details please refer to the Event Details page.

Food & Drinks

  • We'll be serving hors d'oeuvres at the cocktail hour followed by a sit-down dinner with a choice of entree, and late night snacks. Please note any dietary restrictions and your choice of entree on your RSVPs.

  • Yes! If you do wish to tip our bartenders, we recommending bringing petty cash.

Gifts and Registry

  • On our Gifts Page

    or registry page:

    https://www.zola.com/registry/erickandlena/edit

  • Your presence at our wedding is the greatest gift we could ask for! If you would like to honour us with a gift, we have a carefully selected a gift registry linked here and will have a gift table at the wedding to drop off gifts.